I’m reading your palm and it says it belongs on my butt
last night i went to my first fetish party
I went up to this cute girl domme asking her to whip me and spank me.
Apparently while she was doing it, literally the whole party stopped what they were doing just to stare at us. The friend I went with told me she got really wet just watching us.
Boy, that was an experience.
I love my friends.
Friend: So my girlfriend and I were talking about you- nothing sexual, just chit chat about you as a person. She then started stroking my penis and we continued talking about you for 10 minutes.
Friend: Then we stopped talking about you and had sex.
Me: So you're telling me that you had a casual conversation about me with your girlfriend all while she was giving you a handjob? Awesome!!
I made a private sex educator only Facebook group. I noticed that many sex educators on Tumblr wanted a way to connect with other sex educators that wasn’t tumblr. So I made a group!
“Sex Educators Network is a private facebook group for all sex educators. Certified or…
Bringing this back if you’re a sex educator!!
Go to 34:14 for yours truly. With a focus on discussing sex positivity- topics included are; spreading sex positivity, sex work, sex education, STI stigmatization, and revealing exciting news for my future.
Being queer is so fucking confusing
An hour ago I was masturbating to lesbian porn and now all I can think of is how much I’d love to ride a dick? Fuck this shit.
Why is it that when people end up losing everything they own to an earthquake, because they made the decision to live in California, there is a national outpouring of sympathy. But when women make the decision to take the last train home or take off their clothes for money, suddenly they have to accept the “consequences”?
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My Lolita Complex - A (mildly) Sexual Self Analysis
I moved to Paris 3 months ago I’ve been doing a lot of intellectual self exploration. What originally had me trying to figure out my Lolita complex recently turned into me figuring out exactly what I need sexually to maybe get over said complex. Which might very well be some mild BDSM- particularly empowerment through submission. My Lolita complex isn’t too severe, I only find myself attracted to men at least in their 30’s. Which is why I could never really do anything in high school, I was never presented with the opportunity. I always thought that this complex was ONLY because of physical attraction. But I’m beginning to realize there’s more to it, my Lolita complex runs deeper than that. (Remember this is only men. I found myself asking a 17 year old girl friend of mine if I could kiss her one especially drunk night. But I think it’s very important that I explore a mild BDSM sexual relationship with a man and I’ll explain why)
I think one do the reasons I always go for such older guys may be because I’m looking for a male authority figure that I never had. My father was always loving and in my life but never exactly an authority figure. For some reason my subconscious mind wants to make up for this by being somewhat dominated with an older man. I still want to have control over the relationship but I still want that aspect of authority. Authority of life, authority of opinion, authority of sex. Basically I look for guys who know more than me in every aspect of life and that’s one of the reason why I’m always after the older ones. That and the physical attraction of course. I’m dominate but I also subconsciously want to be dominated while I’m constantly telling myself that I want to be equal.
This is a difficult thing to ‘negotiate’ in my feminist head, because we’re taught to value equality and, especially as a woman, there’s a feeling that wanting to be dominated, or to submit, is a kind of betrayal of equality, or of feminism. Even though I know that true equality, freedom, and thus feminism, comes from the ability to recognise one’s desires, affirm them, and live them out as I choose. I still have a hard time with this.
I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s best to primarily admit my desires and explore their true nature, and then any justification or ethical concern I may feel can come second. Rather than going after the 30something Parisian hipsters I am going to find an older authoritative man and confront my complex head on. Who knows? Maybe it will subside or disappear entirely after this future ordeal and I’ll be able to go on to guys closer to my age.
And that’s where the sex advice of Tumblr comes in. I know I am going to try out BDSM. Not BDSM in the sense of whips in chains, but in the sense of authoritative Daddy/Lolita power play. There are, of course, a few ways to go about this. I could do plain old submission or empowerment through submission. Which one? Should I do both? Neither?
Also any resources on authoritative age play/power play (BDSM) sex would be great and much appreciated. What do?
